Bangkok like other parts of Thailand can be a delight for the single (or married) man! Unlike tourist zone’s such as Phuket and Pattaya, some caution should be taking if you are interested in a girl that is outside the main red light district (Soi Cowbow / Nana Plaza). Generally, a well dressed, appropriate looking girl would not be a “working girl” and would find extreme offense to been presumed she is. Bangkok has girls from all walks of life, and is like many other major cities so it is the opinion of Bangkok Deals that you avoid approaching any girls and stick to the main red light district,these girls make them self very known and easy to find! Going to Bangkok for the Bangkok Girls is very common among single men so if you are thinking about this, dont not be worried.
If you are interested in joining the p4p scene and getting with 1 (or many) working girls, you would be best looking at Soi Cowboy or Nana Plaza, there are a number of bars which have girls which work as “Entertainment”, you are able to pay a bar fine and take these girls for as long as you wish. Once you are with the girl, you then need to negotiate the price for her “services”. This should usually cost about 1,500 baht.
More often then not, the girl will have the hope you might like to get her as your holiday girlfriend, this can often lead to a fantastic and memorable holiday and often enough the thought that there is a true bond and even love – caution should be taken as many men end up sending money to these girls, unknown to them that many other men are doing the exact same thing and they all consider them selfs her “boyfriend”! – In the rare case, things do work out but more often then not it is wasted money!
Bangkok Girls often have much more style then there counter-parts in Phuket or Pattaya – this is a general notion the editors of Bangkok Deals have noticed!
If you are moving to Bangkok as a expat, and have the desire to have a real relationship with a educated, career foced person it could be considerably hard in Bangkok – most well-to-do people in Bangkok generally stay with-in there own people and do not like the idea of been with a westerner. This is noticed in Thailand, or any other country!
Should you find your self in a relationship with a bar girl, and you are living in Thailand the family may look to you as a source for income if they are not well off, although your wife / girlfriend may love you and think the world of you, the family could and most probably would see a western man as a trophy husband that they could depend on and use as a source of “bragging” to their friends!
Finding A Educated / Good Thai Girl In Bangkok
If you are going to Bangkok for a Holiday, we do not believe it would be possible to have some kind of short term relationship with a girl of traditional Thai morals – this is because the traditional Thai girl will wish to bring a friend on the first number of dates, will not be interested in holding hands let alone kissing or having fun and she will wish for the family to give the OK which will not usually happen as Thai’s like to stick with their Thai’s when there is money already.
If you are going to Thailand for work, or as a long term Expat then it would be very possible in a city as large as Bangkok. There are many Thai girls out there who have great careers, earn excellent money and would like to have a long term relationship with a good western man. Thai Girls, although like to stay with Thai’s for family, will be happy to be with a farang – it was once said to a member of Bangkok Deals that it is common for Thai men in any situation, to beat their wife. We are not sure if this is true or not, but it could point to why Farang’s are so popular in Thailand.
If you are looking for a good or educated Thai girl, we would suggest looking at your place of work as a good starting point. Other good venues would be a bar (up market, not Nana Plaza), a function center or any other place you would expect to meet someone in the west. Educated Thai Girls are no different to the girls you might expect to meet back home!